Cracking the Iceberg: Understanding Anger in Recovery
Episode Overview
Explore the iceberg model to understand hidden layers of anger. Examine family influences and personal triggers for anger. Learn practical steps like deep breathing to calm down. Connect with others for new perspectives on managing anger. Engage in positive activities to transform anger into positivity.
"He who angers you conquers you" - a reminder that giving power to triggers can control us.
Ever found yourself fuming over something trivial, only to regret it later? Episode 299 of the 'A2D - From Addict to Disciple' podcast is here to help you tackle those fiery emotions. Hosted by David Hain, this episode dives into the complex world of anger and its impact on recovery from addiction. Using the clever iceberg analogy, David helps you uncover the hidden layers beneath your anger, challenging you to look beyond the surface.
Anger management courses are common, but do they really get to the root of the problem? This episode suggests they might just be skimming the surface. David introduces four key areas to examine: family influences, triggers, underlying thoughts and emotions, and the visible behaviour of anger. By exploring these areas, you can begin to understand why certain things set you off and how to regain control.
David shares wisdom from various thinkers, including Confucius and Seneca, offering timeless advice on handling anger. He suggests practical steps like deep breathing and finding your happy place as immediate strategies to defuse tension. More importantly, he encourages connecting with others to gain perspective and engaging in activities that allow anger to dissipate naturally. So, if you're tired of letting anger steer your life, this episode might just be the guide you need.
It’s not about suppressing anger but understanding it and transforming it into something positive. Ready to start your iceberg analysis?