Deciding Your Divorce Path: Settle or Go to Trial? Advice from Attorney Nick Cutrera
The hardest part of working with people going through divorce- is just trying to get them to separate the emotion from the logic, and that's your full-time job.
Divorce can feel like navigating a maze, full of emotional and financial twists and turns. In this episode of 'Starting Over Stronger', host Annie Allen sits down with Family Law Attorney Nick Cutrera to shed light on one of the most crucial decisions you'll face: should you settle or go to trial? Nick brings a wealth of experience and practical advice to help you make informed choices during this challenging time.
Nick's first piece of advice is to weigh all your options carefully. Settling might offer more certainty, but a trial could potentially lead to a better outcome. He emphasizes the importance of consulting with a lawyer to understand the pros and cons of each path. It's not just about what feels right emotionally; it's about what makes sense logically and legally. Protecting yourself is another key point Nick discusses.
He advises gathering all relevant documents, like tax returns and financial statements, to ensure a fair settlement. Nick also suggests exploring alternative dispute resolution methods such as mediation or collaborative law to avoid the high costs and stress associated with going to trial. Managing your emotions during divorce is easier said than done, but Nick underscores its importance. He recommends seeking support from a divorce coach or therapist to help separate your feelings from the legal process.
This emotional clarity can lead to better decision-making and less stress overall. Cost is another major concern in any divorce. Nick offers practical tips on how to keep legal fees in check, including being mindful of your bill and resolving some issues independently if possible. He also highlights the usefulness of a parenting schedule template to minimize disputes and additional legal costs. Lastly, Nick talks about the importance of creating a detailed parenting plan.
While it might be a tough task, being specific about schedules, holidays, and other factors can save you a lot of headaches down the line. Flexibility is key; couples can always agree to make changes as needed. Tune in to 'Starting Over Stronger' for more insights from Nick Cutrera on how to navigate your divorce with a clear head and solid plan.