Jillian Schmitz
Jillian Schmitz
Benny Capaul, Fourth Generation Funeral Director and Co-Host of the "Let's Talk About Death" Podcast
Benny Capaul, Fourth Generation Funeral Director and Co-Host of the "Let's Talk About Death" Podcast
Benny Capaul, Fourth Generation Funeral Director and Co-Host of the "Let's Talk About Death" Podcast
Sunday 20th July 2025
Join Benny Capaul as he shares insights on empathy, grief, and the ceremonial aspects of saying goodbye in funeral homes.
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Episode Overview
- Empathy is crucial in the funeral industry.
- Understanding the difference between grief and mourning.
- Importance of ceremonies in saying goodbye.
- Educational requirements for funeral directors.
- Community plays a role in mourning.
If you're not talking about death, you're not living.
In the latest episode of Grey Maybe, fourth-generation funeral director Benny Capaul shares his experiences and insights into the funeral industry. Coming from a long line of funeral directors, Benny emphasizes the importance of empathy in his work. He believes that empathy is essential for helping families navigate the difficult process of saying goodbye to loved ones.
Benny discusses the difference between grief and mourning, explaining that while grief is an internal emotional experience, mourning is the external expression of that grief, often facilitated through ceremonies and rituals. Benny also touches upon the educational journey required to become a funeral director, particularly highlighting the strict requirements in Michigan. He explains that this education ensures that funeral directors are well-equipped to handle the complexities of their role, from the scientific aspects to the more artistic and emotional components.
A significant part of Benny's philosophy is the role of community in mourning. He argues that humans are inherently community-based, and the opportunity to mourn collectively allows individuals to find closure. This communal aspect is often reflected in the ceremonies and gatherings that follow a death, providing a space for shared grief and support. Throughout the episode, Benny shares personal anecdotes and experiences, including the impact of becoming a parent on his understanding of grief.
He also discusses his involvement in various projects, such as his YouTube channel and band, reflecting his diverse interests and commitment to making discussions about death more accessible. Overall, Benny Capaul's insights offer a thoughtful perspective on the funeral industry, highlighting the importance of empathy, education, and community in dealing with death and grief.