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Chris R. FOTS Toronto - 2020 Steps 8 - 9
Chris R. FOTS Toronto - 2020 Steps 8 - 9
Chris R. FOTS Toronto - 2020 Steps 8 - 9
Wednesday 8th July 2020
Explore the importance of simplifying Steps 8 & 9 in recovery, focusing on genuine amends and overcoming common misconceptions.
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Episode Overview
- Steps 8 & 9 are vital in cleaning up past wreckage.
- Misinterpretations can complicate recovery processes.
- Amends should be sincere, not scripted.
- Living amends involve continuous improvement.
- Seek guidance from experienced members.
I used to be embarrassed to look myself in the mirror for some of the crazy stuff that I did.
In this insightful episode of the Fellowship of the Spirit conference in Toronto, Chris R., a self-identified recovered alcoholic from Ingram, Texas, delivers a compelling talk on Steps 8 and 9 of the Alcoholics Anonymous program. His focus is on demystifying these steps, emphasizing the importance of making amends as a crucial part of the recovery process. Chris begins by addressing the common issue of over-complicating the steps, often leading newcomers to be overwhelmed by conflicting opinions during AA meetings.
He stresses that the program's literature should be the guiding principle, not the myriad interpretations offered by individuals. Simplification and adherence to the Big Book are recurring themes in his discussion. Delving into Step 8, Chris explains that it involves making a list of people harmed and becoming willing to make amends to them all. He shares personal anecdotes, illustrating how misconceptions can lead to ineffective or insincere attempts at amends.
For example, he recounts a story of a fellow member advising a newcomer to delay making amends until sobriety is well-established, which contradicts the Big Book's guidance. Chris continues to Step 9, which involves making direct amends wherever possible, except when doing so would harm others. He offers practical advice, such as avoiding scripted apologies and understanding the broader implications of one's actions. He also highlights the concept of 'living amends,' where continuous efforts are made to rectify past wrongs.
Throughout the talk, Chris uses humor and personal stories to engage the audience, such as his experiences in the service industry and the importance of sincerity in amends. He conveys that making amends is not just a step but an ongoing process that can bring clarity and peace. In conclusion, Chris encourages listeners to seek guidance from experienced members and not to hesitate in reaching out for advice.
His message is clear: while the path to recovery may have its challenges, focusing on the core principles of the AA program can lead to meaningful change and spiritual growth.