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Eggshell Transformations with Imi Lo

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  • Emotional Blackmail: Setting Boundaries with Parents Who Can't Help It (Audio Essay)

Emotional Blackmail: Setting Boundaries with Parents Who Can't Help It (Audio Essay)

Tuesday 21st January 2025

Learn how to set boundaries with manipulative parents who can't help it. Imi Lo offers practical advice for managing complex family dynamics.
32 minutes
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Emotional Blackmail: Setting Boundaries with Parents

Episode Overview

  • Recognise manipulation tactics and trust your instincts.
  • Understand that setting boundaries is not cruel.
  • Prioritise your own well-being over family expectations.
  • Manage guilt and shame when setting boundaries.
  • Expect resistance from family members and stay firm.
Your clarity is not cruelty. Your boundaries are not a betrayal.
Emotional blackmail from parents can be a tricky subject, especially when they genuinely love their children but still manipulate through guilt, obligation, and fear. This episode of 'Eggshell Transformations with Imi Lo' dives into the complex dynamics of setting boundaries with parents who can't help but abuse. Imi Lo explores the nuances of dealing with neurodivergent parents or those carrying generational trauma, who may not intentionally cause harm but still create a toxic environment.
The discussion sheds light on how these parents often present a charming facade to the outside world, making it even harder for their children to justify setting boundaries. The episode emphasises the importance of recognising manipulation tactics and trusting your instincts when something feels off. It also addresses the guilt and shame that often accompany boundary-setting, especially when family members resist the change.
Imi Lo encourages listeners to prioritise their own well-being, even if it means facing backlash from other family members who have benefited from their role as the emotional caretaker. The episode is a compassionate guide for anyone struggling to balance love and self-preservation in complicated family relationships. It offers practical advice on how to manage these dynamics while maintaining your mental health.
If you've ever felt torn between your love for your parents and the need to protect yourself, this episode is a must-listen.