Episode 65: Negative Emotions

Episode 65: Negative Emotions

Addiction and the Family

We look at at the role of negative emotions in our lives, how to recognize and ride through them, how to learn from them, and how these things show up in recovery from addiction (and other mental health disorders) for both the person with the disease and those who love them.

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28:1223 May 2025

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Riding the Waves of Negative Emotions in Recovery

Episode Overview

  • Negative emotions are uncomfortable but crucial signals.
  • Ride the wave of emotions rather than avoid them.
  • Sadness signals loss; depression may involve hidden anger.
  • Guilt arises from perceived wrongdoing; shame relates to social norms.
  • Seek help through therapy or recovery fellowships for emotional support.
Emotions are a full-body experience; we might feel them all over the place.

In this episode of 'Addiction and the Family', Casey and Kira Arrillaga tackle the complex topic of negative emotions and their impact on recovery from addiction. Drawing from their personal experiences and professional insights, they explore how emotions like fear, anger, guilt, and shame can influence both those recovering from addiction and their families. Casey shares his wave analogy to help understand and manage these emotions, comparing them to ocean waves that rise, peak, and eventually subside.

He emphasises the importance of recognising these emotions in our bodies and learning to ride through them rather than avoiding them. The episode dives into specific emotions such as sadness, depression, guilt, and shame, highlighting their underlying causes and effects. Casey discusses how sadness often signals a sense of loss, while depression might be linked to unexpressed anger.

Guilt, he explains, arises from a sense of having done something wrong, whereas shame is more about social perceptions and fears of not fitting in. Throughout the discussion, Casey and Kira stress the importance of emotional honesty and seeking help through therapy or recovery fellowships. They encourage listeners to embrace their feelings, share their experiences, and find supportive communities where they can express themselves freely.

Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights into understanding and managing negative emotions. So why not dive in and see what lessons you can take away for your own journey?

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