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Episode 833: Chasing Them Down While They're Chasing the Dragon
Episode 833: Chasing Them Down While They're Chasing the Dragon
Episode 833: Chasing Them Down While They're Chasing the Dragon
Wednesday 27th March 2024
Monty Meyer explores the heartbreak of 'Fixing Others' in addiction recovery, offering insights for both supporters and professionals.
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Episode Overview
- Nagging and unwanted advice lead to more stress and conflict.
- Assuming superiority can make you act condescending.
- Making decisions for others takes away their chance to learn.
- Sponsors should offer tools, not force solutions.
- Letting go allows the recovery process to unfold naturally.
We are sponsors and mentors, not their probation officer
Ever felt the urge to 'fix' someone struggling with addiction? In this episode of Take 12 Recovery Radio, Monty Dale Meyer, also known as the Monty'man, dives deep into the heart-wrenching phenomenon of 'Fixing Others'. With a mix of empathy and candidness, Monty shares his thoughts on why trying to save someone from their addiction often leads to heartbreak. He highlights the common mistakes made by those in recovery support roles, such as nagging, giving unwanted advice, and assuming superiority.
Monty reminds us that sponsors and mentors are there to offer tools, not force solutions. His reflections are not only for family and friends of addicts but also for those working in recovery, encouraging everyone to step back and allow the process to unfold naturally. The episode wraps up with a touching song, 'Helping Hand' by Eli Tellor, which perfectly complements the theme of offering support without overstepping boundaries.
If you're involved in the recovery community or know someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and a compassionate perspective. It's a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the delicate balance of support in addiction recovery.