Episode 1024: Attachment StylesEpisode 1024: Attachment Styles
Take 12 Recovery Radio
ATTACHMENT STYLES. In this episode of the Came to Believe Recovery Podcast, Tom, Alicea and Monty...
56:36•10 Sept 2025
Understanding Attachment Styles in Recovery
Episode Overview
- Understanding your attachment style can aid in personal growth.
- Secure attachment promotes healthy relationships and emotional regulation.
- Recognising insecure patterns can lead to healing through therapy.
- Avoidance of unhealthy dependency is crucial in recovery.
- Self-awareness helps transition towards secure attachments.
“Remind the prospect that his recovery is not dependent upon people, but upon his relationship with God.”
Curious about how different attachment styles impact recovery? Episode 1024 of Take 12 Recovery Radio dives into this fascinating topic. Monty Dale Meyer, along with Tom and Alicea, explore the four common attachment styles: secure, avoidant, anxious, and disorganized. They discuss how these styles manifest in personal and professional relationships and what it means for individuals on their recovery journey. Are these attachment styles healthy? Can they be useful in recovery?
The trio shares their personal experiences and anecdotes, offering a relatable perspective that many listeners will connect with. Monty reveals how attachment styles influenced his own recovery, reflecting on past struggles with emotional dependency and how he overcame them. The episode is peppered with light-hearted moments, like reminiscing about eight-track tapes and humorous exchanges about barking like a dog. Despite the serious undertones of attachment theory, the hosts keep the conversation engaging and accessible.
Listeners will gain insights into recognising their own attachment patterns and how these might affect their recovery journey. The discussion encourages self-reflection and offers practical advice on how to aim for a secure attachment style, which is characterised by empathy, appropriate boundaries, and satisfaction in relationships. Whether you're an avoidant, anxious, or disorganised type, there's room for growth towards a more secure attachment. So, where do you fit in? What steps can you take to improve your attachment style?
Dive into this episode to find out more and see how understanding these styles can aid in your recovery journey.

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