Geno Ray

Native As I Can Be

Geno Ray

  • Episode 19: Becca Flat, Part One

Episode 19: Becca Flat, Part One

Sunday 18th January 2026

Becca Flat shares her journey through grief and identity, exploring race, adoption, and cultural challenges in this heartfelt episode.
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49 minutes
Inspiring
Honest
Informative
Compassionate
Engaging

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Native As I Can Be
Author:
Geno Ray
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Categories:
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Relationships & Community
Healing Relationships
Religion & Spirituality
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Identity and Grief: Becca Flat's Journey

Episode Overview

  • Becca shares her journey through significant personal losses.
  • The episode explores the intersectionality of race and identity.
  • Black fashion is discussed as a form of cultural resistance.
  • Geno draws parallels between Native and Black experiences.
  • Becca reflects on the impact of being raised in a mixed-race family.
"I didn't understand what that was going to be like to watch him become a grandfather."
What makes a recovery story truly inspiring? In Episode 19 of "Native As I Can Be," Geno Ray invites Becca Flat to share her poignant journey through grief and identity. Becca, a mixed-race adoptee, opens up about the profound loss of her father, birth father, and birth sister within a few months. As she navigates this emotional landscape, Becca reflects on her upbringing, the intersections of race and identity, and the cultural challenges she faced.
Geno and Becca's conversation meanders through personal anecdotes, touching on topics like the significance of black fashion as a form of identity and resistance. They discuss how Becca's father, a significant figure in her life, imparted values of resilience and caution in a world that often judges by appearance. The episode is peppered with light-hearted moments and deep reflections, making it both engaging and thought-provoking.
Becca shares the complexities of being raised by a mixed-race couple and the pressures of fitting into societal norms. She candidly talks about the trauma of cultural dislocation and the journey to embrace her black identity fully. Geno adds his perspective, drawing parallels between Native and Black experiences, highlighting shared histories and struggles. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of identity, loss, and the courage to face one's truth.
It offers listeners a chance to connect with Becca's story and reflect on their own journeys. How do we honour our past while forging our path forward? Tune in to find out.
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