5 Harmful Phrases to Avoid Saying to Alcoholics: Insights from The Magdalen House
When our step one truth is that I will drink no matter what... I lose the power of choice before I put the drink in my body.
Ever wondered if your well-meaning advice to someone struggling with alcoholism might be doing more harm than good? In this compelling episode of the RecoverED podcast, host Kady Younkman dives into five common phrases people often say to alcoholics that can actually be detrimental. Joined by her friend Katie, Kady breaks down these phrases and contrasts them with the teachings of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and the recovery principles followed at The Magdalen House.
The episode highlights phrases like 'Play the tape through' and 'Just don't drink no matter what', revealing why such statements can be counterproductive. Instead of offering genuine support, these phrases can undermine an alcoholic's journey by ignoring the complexities of addiction and recovery. The discussion also touches on the significance of recognizing one's powerlessness over alcohol and the mental obsession that accompanies it.
Kady and Katie emphasize the role of a higher power and spiritual awakening in the recovery process, underscoring the importance of working through the steps and having a sponsor. This episode is not just informative but also eye-opening, shedding light on the nuanced realities of alcoholism and the path to sobriety. With a tone that's both empathetic and straightforward, Kady's insights provide valuable guidance for anyone looking to better support their loved ones struggling with addiction.
So, if you've ever found yourself at a loss for words when trying to help an alcoholic friend or family member, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt wisdom. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of what truly helps—and what doesn't—on the road to recovery.