Jordan Peterson's Rule 11: Let Kids Skateboard and Embrace Risks
For the sake of the future generation, leave children alone when they are skateboarding.
Ever thought about why kids love skateboarding, even when it seems dangerous? In this engaging episode of 'Down the Rabbit Hole with Rob Woll', Rob dives into Jordan Peterson's Rule 11 from his book, '12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos'. The rule might sound simple: 'Don't bother children when they are skateboarding'. But as Rob explores, there's a lot more beneath the surface.
Rob starts by sharing memories of watching kids skateboard on campus and how adults often see it as too risky. Peterson argues that stopping kids from skateboarding isn't just about safety; it reflects deeper psychological and social issues. Rob discusses how well-meaning rules can sometimes have unexpected negative consequences. He links this to broader societal trends, like the push for new social rules and the dangers of overcompensating for real problems.
This can lead to anti-human beliefs, which historically have had devastating effects. Rob also tackles the topic of toxic masculinity. He suggests that while aggression and competition are often seen negatively, they have their place when balanced correctly. Boys, driven by these traits, engage in activities like skateboarding, which helps them build resilience and confidence. Overprotecting kids, especially boys, can strip them of these vital experiences.
In essence, this episode is a thoughtful examination of why letting kids take risks is crucial for their development. Rob's insights make you rethink the balance between safety and growth, showing that sometimes, the best way to help children is to let them face challenges head-on.