Embracing Change: Lisa M's Step Six Journey
Episode Overview
Being 'entirely ready' involves recognising and confronting character defects. A thorough inventory helps identify traits leading back to alcohol. Willingness to change is crucial in overcoming self-centeredness. Sharing experiences with a sponsor aids self-awareness. False closeness through certain behaviours can damage relationships.
90% of the battle is that willingness to change.
In this episode of SoberQ, Lisa M takes us on a heartfelt journey through the challenges and revelations of Step Six in alcohol recovery. With 15 years of sobriety under her belt, Lisa shares the raw truth about becoming 'entirely ready' for change. She opens up about the daunting task of confronting one's defects of character – a process that starts with a thorough inventory in Step Four.
Lisa explains how she had to identify the traits that kept leading her back to alcohol, such as selfishness and fear, and why it was crucial to bring these into the light. It's not just about knowing right from wrong; it's about finding the strength to apply this knowledge to one's life. Lisa candidly discusses her struggle with self-centeredness and the difficulty of wishing oneself into a better state of mind.
Her story is one of realisation – seeing herself in black and white on the pages of her inventory, and sharing these revelations with a sponsor. Lisa acknowledges the good parts of her character but emphasises the need to let go of those that don't serve her well. Her journey illustrates the painful yet necessary process of change, underscoring the importance of willingness in recovery.
Lisa's experience is a testament to the idea that sometimes, you have to be 'smashed' by life's challenges to be truly ready for transformation. With a touch of humour, she reflects on how certain behaviours, like gossiping, might seem beneficial but ultimately damage her soul. Lisa's story is a powerful reminder that change isn't easy, but it's possible with determination and support.
If you're grappling with your own recovery questions, Lisa's insights might just be the nudge you need to take that next step.