Navigating Character and Mistakes with Matthew 18
Episode Overview
Matthew 18 process distinguishes between character flaws and mistakes. Safety in community is crucial when addressing harmful behaviours. Accountability should lead to healing and redemption for all parties. Challenges are opportunities for personal growth and reflection. Mutual respect and kindness are key in handling accountability.
"It's not about all consequences, it's about making things right, making things just, and that means redeeming both people."
Ever wondered how to tackle unwanted behaviours while maintaining respect and kindness? In this episode of Relational Recovery, hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill delve into the Matthew 18 process, offering insights into distinguishing between character flaws and mere mistakes. They highlight the importance of addressing behaviours that cause harm, whether intentional or accidental, and stress the significance of safety within a community.
With anecdotes from their experience at The Refuge Ministry, they emphasise that accountability isn't about punishment but about healing and redemption for all involved. The conversation explores how the Matthew 18 process isn't a tool for bullying or pettiness but a means to foster growth and mutual respect. As Wes and Austin discuss, it's not just about looking at others' faults but reflecting on what annoyances reveal about ourselves.
This episode encourages listeners to embrace challenges, as facing them head-on can lead to stronger, more compassionate individuals. So if you're looking for ways to navigate tricky situations with grace, this episode offers practical advice and thought-provoking reflections on personal growth.