Parenting with Peace: Calming Your Nervous System
Episode Overview
Understanding your nervous system can improve your parenting. Vulnerability fosters respect and understanding with children. Mindful breathing helps calm emotional reactions. Unresolved trauma can affect parent-child interactions. Nonverbal cues play a significant role in communication. 
"Our nervous systems are always scanning for safety, even before our brain has a chance to think."
How do our emotional reactions intertwine with our nervous system, especially in the context of parenting? This episode of Recovery Recharged with Ellen Stewart, the Pushy Broad from the Bronx, tackles this intriguing question with guest Lynn Wadsworth, a licensed clinician and addiction specialist. Lynn brings over 30 years of experience working with adolescents and families, offering a wealth of knowledge about the nervous system's impact on parenting.
Lynn shares her personal journey from being a troubled teen to a seasoned therapist, highlighting how unresolved trauma can affect parenting. The conversation delves into the polyvagal theory, explaining how different states of the nervous system can influence parental behaviour and child interactions. Listeners will find relatable anecdotes, such as Lynn's experiences raising her son, who is on the autism spectrum, and how her past influenced her parenting style.
The episode provides practical advice for parents struggling to regulate their emotions and maintain healthy relationships with their children. Techniques like mindful breathing and being present in the moment are discussed as effective ways to calm the nervous system. Lynn also emphasises the importance of vulnerability in parenting, encouraging open and honest communication with children to foster respect and understanding.
With humour and sincerity, Ellen and Lynn navigate the complexities of emotional regulation in parenting, offering listeners valuable insights and strategies to improve their family dynamics. So, how can understanding your nervous system transform your approach to parenting? Tune in to find out!