Respect in Marriage: Navigating Tough Questions with Channon and Nicole Bailey
They just want to know that you thought about them. So get ready to do it again, like I said, not like you. Your intentions are right, but you just got to keep showing up and doing it and then you'll see her come around, it'll start to grow in you and it'll all get better and better.
How do you handle respect in a marriage when it feels like your partner isn’t earning it? In this episode of 'Can I Change Your Mind?', Channon Bailey and his wife, Nicole, tackle this challenging topic head-on. Nicole candidly shares her thoughts, saying, 'He lost his temper. He's looking at pornography. He's lying. He is never home. He's not leading like he should. He doesn't help around the house. He said something negative to me.
This list could go on and on and on... which leaves you with this question. If he isn't earning respect, do I still have to respect him?' This raw honesty sets the stage for a deep dive into the dynamics of respect within a marriage. Channon and Nicole discuss how to navigate these tricky waters, drawing on their own experiences and offering practical advice.
They explore how respect can be maintained even when it feels unearned and the importance of consistent effort in showing love and appreciation. The couple also delves into the biblical perspective on respect and submission, providing a balanced view that’s both compassionate and realistic. They emphasize that respect isn’t just about grand gestures but also about the small, everyday actions that show your partner you care.
Whether you’re dealing with a partner who isn’t pulling their weight or just looking to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips. Tune in to hear Channon and Nicole’s heartfelt discussion and learn how to build a more respectful and loving marriage.