Self Sabotage (Episode 6 - Archive)Self Sabotage (Episode 6 - Archive)
Relational Recovery
Wes Thompson and Austin Hill discuss overcoming self-sabotage through self-regulation and the importance of community support in recovery.
8:01•25 May 2025
Breaking Free from Self-Sabotage: A Path to Recovery
Episode Overview
- Assess your emotional state using five categories: safe, scary, chaotic, boring, calm.
- Build trust with yourself and others; recovery is not a solo journey.
- Join groups or communities for a sense of belonging and support.
- Seek guidance from healthier role models to widen your perspective.
- Show yourself compassion; recovery takes time and practice.
“"Nobody gets better by themselves. Not me. Not you, Austin. Not anybody ever."”
In the podcast episode 'Self Sabotage', Wes Thompson and Austin Hill dive into the complex world of self-regulation and recovery. Ever found yourself in a cycle of unwanted behaviours? This episode might just be your guide to breaking free. The hosts tackle the tricky topic of self-sabotage, providing a fresh perspective on how to navigate the murky waters of recovery.
With over two decades of experience, The Refuge Ministry blends Christian spirituality with psychology to offer insights that are both practical and profound. The conversation is structured around understanding one's emotional state and surroundings. Wes introduces a simple yet effective method to assess your current situation using five categories: safe, scary, chaotic, boring, and calm. This approach encourages you to pause and reflect on your feelings and environment, a crucial step in avoiding impulsive behaviours.
Building relational attachments is another key theme. The hosts emphasise the importance of trust, not just with others but with oneself. It's a reminder that recovery is not a solo journey. Whether it's joining a support group or seeking guidance from someone healthier, connection is vital. Wes and Austin also highlight the power of group identity. Being part of something bigger than yourself, like a church or recovery group, can provide the support and motivation needed for lasting change.
They argue that having healthier role models around can help widen your perspective and offer new ways to approach challenges. With a sprinkle of humour and a whole lot of empathy, this episode is an invitation to slow down, be curious, and show yourself some compassion. After all, Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither is recovery. So why not take the first step today?

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