Jennifer Matesa on Navigating Intimacy in Sobriety
Sexuality in the context of recovery is rarely talked about openly, in part because our broader culture may inhibit us from sharing our true experiences.
Sex and sobriety—two topics that rarely get discussed together, but Jennifer Matesa is here to change that. In this eye-opening episode of The Recovery Revolution Podcast, hosted by Omar Pinto, Jennifer dives into the complexities of intimate relationships when you're living a sober life. As the author of 'Sex in Recovery: A Meeting Between the Covers', she brings a fresh perspective on what it means to connect with someone without the haze of drugs or alcohol.
Jennifer's journey through addiction and her path to recovery provide a raw and authentic backdrop to her insights. She opens up about the challenges she faced, including codependency and strained relationships, all exacerbated by substance abuse. Her story is a testament to the power of vulnerability and honesty in healing. Throughout the episode, Jennifer shares key takeaways from her book, tackling questions like whether the infamous One-Year rule—abstaining from sex for a year in early recovery—is practical for everyone.
She emphasizes that each person's journey is unique and should be navigated with self-awareness and compassion. The conversation also touches on broader issues like the opioid epidemic and the role of western medicine in addiction recovery. Jennifer's candid discussion offers not just information but genuine support for anyone grappling with these tough issues. Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode provides valuable insights into the often-overlooked aspect of sober living—intimacy.
Tune in for a thought-provoking and heartfelt conversation that aims to break down barriers and foster understanding.