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  • Surrender Without Losing Yourself (Full Episode)

Surrender Without Losing Yourself (Full Episode)

Monday 16th February 2026

Explore the balance between surrender and self-discovery in recovery. Learn how letting go can lead to peace and transformation.
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Finding Peace in Surrender: A Journey to Self-Discovery

Episode Overview

  • Surrender is not about losing oneself but embracing a deeper connection with God.
  • Understanding God's character is crucial for trust and transformation.
  • True surrender involves both emotional and rational decision-making.
  • Acceptance and peace come from recognising what we can't control.
  • Personal stories highlight the courage needed to let go.
Surrender isn't self-hatred; it's about restoring us to what we were made to be.
Curious about how surrender can coexist with maintaining your identity? This episode of Relational Recovery takes you on a journey through the third step of the 12-step programme, focusing on the concept of surrender. Matthew and his co-hosts dissect the idea that surrendering to a higher power doesn't mean losing oneself but rather embracing a deeper connection with God.
Drawing from John Ortberg's book, they explore how surrender is not about erasing oneself but finding peace and purpose through trust and acceptance. The conversation is enriched with personal anecdotes and reflections on how difficult it can be to let go of control. Listeners are encouraged to consider the role of emotions and rational thinking in decision-making, highlighting that true surrender involves both heart and mind.
The hosts discuss how embracing one's vulnerabilities and recognising the limits of personal power can lead to genuine transformation. A key takeaway is the importance of understanding who God is and what it means to trust Him fully. This episode also touches on the serenity prayer, which serves as a grounding point for those seeking peace amidst chaos.
Whether you're new to recovery or have been on the path for years, this episode offers a fresh perspective on finding strength in surrender. Reflecting on the challenges of addiction and the courage it takes to let go, this discussion offers hope and insight for anyone struggling with control in their lives. Are you ready to explore what surrender truly means for your journey?
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