Mandy Friedman LPCC-S
Mandy Friedman LPCC-S
The Cost of Fairness: Decision Making
The Cost of Fairness: Decision Making
The Cost of Fairness: Decision Making
Wednesday 30th July 2025
Explore fairness in custody battles with Mandy Friedman, Melanie Mize, and Michelle Minette, highlighting child-centric decision-making.
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Get the buttons here!Reimagining Fairness in Family Court Decisions
Episode Overview
- Fairness isn't always what's best for children.
- Custody involves decision-making, not just physical presence.
- Courts balance parental rights with children's interests.
- 'Fair Play' helps distribute parenting responsibilities.
- Emphasising child-centric approaches over equal parental involvement.
"Fairness is not always what's healthy or best."
In this episode of SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities, Mandy Friedman LPCC-S is joined by Melanie Mize and Michelle Minette to unravel the complexities of fairness in decision-making during custody battles. The trio dives into the nuances of how parenting plans often confuse fairness with what's genuinely beneficial for children.
You'll hear Melanie, a seasoned family law attorney, shed light on the concept of custody, clarifying that it goes beyond just physical presence, focusing instead on who makes major decisions affecting a child's life. Michelle, a holistic life coach, shares insights on the emotional toll these decisions can have on both parents and children. As the conversation unfolds, they tackle the myth of equal decision-making and its potential harm. Are both parents equipped to make joint decisions post-divorce?
How do courts balance parental rights with a child's best interests? These questions lead to a discussion on generational trauma perpetuated by fairness-focused court decisions. The episode also explores practical strategies like 'Fair Play', which aims to distribute responsibilities in a way that benefits both parents and children. Through anecdotes and expert advice, Mandy and her guests challenge listeners to reconsider what true fairness looks like in custody arrangements. They emphasise the importance of prioritising children's needs over parental equality.
With a mix of humour and empathy, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the maze of family court or supporting someone who is. Dive in for an enlightening perspective that might just change how you view fairness in parenting.