Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Ways People Excuse Abusive Behavior
Ways People Excuse Abusive Behavior
Ways People Excuse Abusive Behavior
Thursday 23rd July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug discusses why people excuse abusive behaviour and stresses the need to believe and support victims. Listen now.
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Get the buttons here!Unmasking Excuses: Cynthia Bailey-Rug on Recognising Abusive Behaviour
Abusers hide their cruel activities from everyone but their victim. By acting nice around other people. This protects the abuser's reputation and makes people believe him or her over the victim.
Why do people often dismiss claims of abuse, especially when it’s emotional rather than physical? Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into this troubling issue, dissecting the common excuses people use to justify not believing victims. One popular excuse is that the abuser seems too nice to be harmful. Narcissists are experts at presenting a charming facade to the world while tormenting their victims behind closed doors.
Another excuse is the abuser’s position of authority, like a pastor or teacher, which some believe makes them incapable of such behaviour. However, these roles can actually attract narcissists who crave power and admiration. The episode also tackles the damaging belief that victims are exaggerating or lying, which only deepens their trauma. Cynthia explains how gaslighting, a tactic where abusers manipulate their victim’s reality, complicates the victim’s ability to seek help and be believed.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone wanting to understand the complexities of abusive relationships and the importance of believing and supporting victims. Through her thoughtful discussion, Cynthia offers valuable insights and practical advice on recognising abuse and helping those affected.