Surviving Family Triggers in Sobriety: Angela Pugh's Guide
Episode Overview
Understand why family can trigger old behaviours. Learn techniques to interrupt conditioned responses. Set boundaries to protect your mental well-being. Use practical tools like the two-minute reset. Recognise and track triggers before they escalate.
Triggers create discomfort, and discomfort creates urgency.
Ever felt like a family gathering is a time machine, zapping you back to your awkward teenage years? Angela Pugh, the host of Addiction Unlimited, dives into this very feeling in her latest episode, 'When Family Triggers You in Sobriety: How to Stay Sane, Set Boundaries, and Protect Your Peace'. Angela, a seasoned coach and recovering alcoholic, brings her no-nonsense approach to the table, offering strategies to help you maintain your cool when family dynamics threaten your sobriety.
The episode explores why family can be such a powerful trigger, even years into recovery. Angela explains how old roles and unspoken rules from our upbringing can hijack our nervous systems, making us feel small and anxious. It's not just in your head—it's your body reacting to years of conditioning. But don't worry, Angela's got you covered with practical tools to manage these triggers.
From the two-minute reset technique to tracking your triggers before they escalate, Angela shares her personal go-to strategies. She also highlights the importance of setting boundaries, like driving yourself to family events so you can leave when needed, and limiting your stay to avoid overstimulation. Angela's candid anecdotes about her own experiences with family triggers provide a relatable backdrop to her advice. She reminds you that healing is your responsibility—not because you caused the damage, but because you deserve better.
By the end of the episode, you'll feel armed with the tools to protect your peace and sobriety. If family gatherings have ever left you feeling like a fish out of water, this episode is your lifeline. Angela's insights and practical advice are a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate these tricky waters with confidence and clarity.