Randy L Boyd
Randy L Boyd
When The Past Comes Home: How Unresolved Childhood Trauma Affects Our Marriage
When The Past Comes Home: How Unresolved Childhood Trauma Affects Our Marriage
When The Past Comes Home: How Unresolved Childhood Trauma Affects Our Marriage
Monday 28th April 2025
Explore how unresolved childhood trauma impacts marriages with Randy & Cathy Boyd. Discover healing steps for couples.
39 minutes
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Author:
Randy L Boyd
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Religion & Spirituality
Recovery from Trauma
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Episode Overview
- Unresolved childhood trauma can resurface in adult relationships.
- Common patterns include fear of abandonment and control issues.
- Healing requires ongoing commitment and self-discovery.
- Reparenting oneself can improve marital dynamics.
- Building trust and safety is crucial for relationship growth.
Your marriage isn't broken; you're just bumping into what needs healing.
In this episode of Healing Courageously, Randy and Cathy Boyd tackle the thorny issue of unresolved childhood trauma and its impact on marriages. Drawing from their extensive experience in marriage counselling and trauma recovery, they explore how past wounds can resurface, creating hurdles in relationships. The Boyds share their personal journey, reflecting on how these hidden scars affected their own marriage, and offer a blend of practical advice and heartfelt anecdotes.
With light humour and genuine empathy, they discuss why certain patterns repeat, how triggers form, and how couples can begin healing together. Randy's revelation about control issues and Cathy's struggle with emotional shutdown provide a relatable glimpse into the dynamics many couples face. They delve into common patterns like fear of abandonment, over-apologising, and the emotional baggage that often spills into adult relationships.
Randy's candid admission about his affair underscores the importance of addressing these deep-rooted issues rather than letting them fester. The episode is structured around four key segments: how childhood trauma doesn't stay in childhood, its manifestations in marriages, the trauma-trigger dynamic, and healing as a couple. The Boyds emphasise that healing is a lifelong commitment requiring therapy and self-discovery. They encourage listeners to reparent themselves and build safety and trust within their relationships.
This episode is not just a conversation but a call to action—inviting you to reflect on your past and its influence on your marriage. Whether you're grappling with unresolved issues or seeking to support a loved one, Randy and Cathy offer insights that resonate with authenticity and hope. So, if you're ready to confront those shadows from the past, this episode might just be your starting point.