Danish Bashir
Danish Bashir
When you tell the Narcissist you were sexually abused
When you tell the Narcissist you were sexually abused
When you tell the Narcissist you were sexually abused
Sunday 5th May 2024
Discover how narcissists respond to your deepest traumas. Danish Bashir exposes their harmful behaviours and offers insights into healing.
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Healing Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Recovery Reimagined
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Episode Overview
- Narcissists often invalidate your traumatic experiences.
- Gaslighting is a common tactic used by narcissists.
- Some narcissists display performative empathy but revert to indifference.
- Conditional support is given only when it benefits the narcissist.
- Recognising these patterns is crucial for healing.
Instead of finding a solution together or doing something, they blame you and take out that rage on you
What happens when you share your deepest trauma with a narcissist? In this eye-opening episode, Danish Bashir, a certified clinical trauma specialist, unpacks the chilling reality of how narcissists respond when you're at your most vulnerable. Danish starts by describing the heart-wrenching experience of seeking comfort from a narcissist after a sexual abuse incident. Instead of offering solace, they often invalidate your pain, acting as if nothing happened or, worse, blaming you for the abuse.
Imagine running to someone you trust only to be met with cold indifference or outright denial. It's a nightmare many survivors face, and Danish doesn't hold back in exposing these harmful behaviours. The episode also delves into the twisted tactic of gaslighting. Narcissists may try to convince you that your traumatic experience either never happened or didn't happen the way you remember it. This can leave you questioning your own reality and feeling even more isolated.
Danish shares personal anecdotes, making the discussion all the more relatable and poignant. You'll also hear about the performative empathy some narcissists display. They might initially pretend to care, putting on a dramatic show of concern, only to revert to their indifferent selves soon after. This fleeting sympathy can be even more damaging as it gives false hope of genuine support. Danish wraps up by highlighting the ultimate betrayal: when narcissists use your vulnerability against you.
They may offer conditional support only when it benefits them, further manipulating you in your time of need. This episode is a must-listen for anyone trying to understand the complex dynamics of narcissistic abuse and seeking ways to heal from such toxic relationships. If you've ever felt unsupported by someone you thought you could trust, this episode will resonate deeply. It's a stark reminder that healing begins with recognising these destructive patterns and finding the strength to seek healthier connections.