Why Narcissists Act Like Angels in Public but Devils at Home
Episode Overview
Narcissists have contrasting public and private personas. Their public charm is a tactic to gather admiration and supply. Children of narcissists often develop fear and co-dependency. Victims' survival masks differ from narcissists' manipulative personas. Understanding the narcissist's behaviour can aid in healing.
Everything is a performance for a narcissist. And the audience matters.
Ever wondered why a narcissist can seem like an angel in public but turn into a devil at home? This episode of 'Heal from within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish' dives deep into this perplexing behaviour. Danish Bashir, a Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist, shares his personal experiences growing up with narcissistic parents, shedding light on the baffling duality of narcissists.
He explains how they thrive on public admiration, putting on a charming facade to gather praise and sympathy, only to reveal their true, toxic selves behind closed doors. Danish's anecdotes about his parents' contrasting public and private personas will resonate with anyone who's dealt with similar situations. The episode also explores the impact of this behaviour on children, highlighting how it fosters fear, confusion, and co-dependency.
Danish reassures listeners that the narcissist's behaviour is not their fault, emphasising the importance of understanding the narcissist's need for constant validation and supply. He also draws a crucial distinction between the masks victims wear to survive and the manipulative personas of narcissists. If you've ever questioned your sanity due to a narcissist's shape-shifting nature, this episode offers clarity and support.
Tune in for an eye-opening discussion that could help you make sense of your experiences and start your healing journey.