Zoe Asher
Zoe Asher
Why Being The "Fixer" Might Be Hurting Your Friendships!
Why Being The "Fixer" Might Be Hurting Your Friendships!
Why Being The "Fixer" Might Be Hurting Your Friendships!
Thursday 14th August 2025
Explore why being the 'fixer' might be harming your friendships and learn how to become a more supportive friend.
12 minutes
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Author:
Zoe Asher
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Categories:
Relationships & Community
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Entrepreneurship for Personal Growth
Body & Mind
Healing Relationships
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Episode Overview
- Being a fixer can push friends away if not managed properly.
- Allowing silence gives friends space to process their thoughts.
- Ask if friends want advice or just need someone to listen.
- Support friends by letting them own their decisions.
- Presence can be more impactful than words.
"Your presence is more powerful than your words most of the time."
Ever found yourself in the 'fixer' role within your circle of friends? Zoe Asher's podcast episode 'Why Being The "Fixer" Might Be Hurting Your Friendships!' sheds light on how this seemingly noble position might be pushing friends away rather than drawing them closer. Asher explores the dynamics of being the go-to person for advice and solutions, revealing that sometimes, eagerness to help can lead to unintended consequences.
The episode kicks off with Asher's candid reflection on her own experiences as a fixer, sharing a moment where her well-intentioned advice was met with resistance. This revelation is a relatable eye-opener for anyone who’s ever felt bewildered by friends pulling away despite efforts to help. Asher offers practical steps to shift from unsolicited advice-giver to supportive listener.
She highlights the importance of allowing space for silence, encouraging listeners to ask their friends whether they want advice or simply need someone to listen. Asher introduces a fascinating fact about conversation dynamics – it takes longer for our brains to form thoughts than it does to respond. This nugget underscores the value of pausing before jumping in with solutions. By sharing personal anecdotes and a sprinkle of humour, Asher makes a compelling case for re-evaluating how we approach friendships.
The episode is packed with tips on how to foster meaningful connections without overstepping boundaries. If you're keen on learning how to be a better friend, this episode might just be what you need. Are you ready to transform your fixer tendencies into more supportive friendships?