The Mirage Man: Understanding Why Men Prowl and Protecting Yourself
When we get into relationships and we try to please another person because we think that's who they want us to be or who they need us to be, then ultimately we end up betraying ourselves and then we end up betraying all the people who love us or who we're associated with.
Why do some men lead double lives, creating false images to attract partners? In this intriguing episode of 'One Hour AT A Time', host Mary Woods chats with Dr. J. R. Bruns and Dr. R.A. Richards II, the authors behind 'The Tiger Woods Syndrome: Why Men Prowl and How to Not Become the Prey'. Drawing from years of research, they reveal patterns of deception common among men, from celebrities to everyday individuals.
The conversation dives into the evolution of romance and how the emphasis on character and honesty has shifted over time. Dr. Bruns and Dr. Richards introduce the concept of the 'Mirage Man', a term they use to describe men who project an illusion to lure women in. They discuss how mood disorders and anxiety can play a role in these deceptive behaviors and stress the importance of spirituality in recovery.
The episode offers practical advice on recognizing these 'Mirage Men' and lays out romantic rules for men to follow. As they unpack these themes, listeners will find themselves reflecting on their own relationships and the importance of staying true to oneself. If you're curious about the complexities of modern romance and want to protect yourself from deceptive partners, this episode is a must-listen.