Ross Rosenberg

The Self-Love Recovery Podcast

Ross Rosenberg, M. Ed., LCPC, CADC

  • Why Toxic Love Feels So Intense — And Why It’s So Hard to Leave

Why Toxic Love Feels So Intense — And Why It’s So Hard to Leave

Tuesday 23rd December 2025

Explore why toxic love feels so intense and hard to leave with Ross Rosenberg's insights on narcissism and codependency.
42 minutes
Informative
Engaging
Educational
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The Self-Love Recovery Podcast
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Ross Rosenberg
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Healing Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Why Toxic Love Feels So Intense

Episode Overview

  • Understanding Human Magnet Syndrome can help explain attraction to toxic partners.
  • Self-Love Deficit Disorder highlights the core issue of lacking self-love.
  • Attachment trauma from childhood significantly impacts adult relationships.
  • Trauma bonding is an unconscious attraction based on past trauma.
  • Limerence creates a euphoric but often misleading chemistry in relationships.
"It's like falling in love with the same person but with a different face."
Ever wondered why toxic love feels so irresistible yet impossible to escape? In this engaging episode, John Cooper interviews Ross Rosenberg, a seasoned psychotherapist known for his expertise in narcissistic abuse and codependency. Together, they unpack the intricacies of toxic relationship patterns through Rosenberg's Human Magnet Syndrome and Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD). With over 35 years in the mental health field, Rosenberg offers a fresh perspective on why people with low self-love are drawn to narcissists.
He shares personal anecdotes about his 'broken picker' and how these patterns of attraction can be as synchronised as a tango dance. Rosenberg delves into the concept of trauma bonding, explaining how attachment trauma from childhood plays a pivotal role in adult relationships. The discussion also covers the idea of 'limerence,' that euphoric, drug-like chemistry that often masks deeper issues. The conversation is peppered with light-hearted banter and moments of self-reflection, making it both educational and entertaining.
If you've ever found yourself stuck in a toxic cycle, this episode might just offer the clarity you need to break free. Why not tune in and see if it resonates with your experiences?
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