Navigating Relationships and Recovery: Steve O’s Workshop on Sex and Sobriety
When we can reveal ourselves without shame, when you can get up and reveal yourself, warts and all without shame, then you know you're healed.
Relationships can be tricky, especially when you're on the path to recovery. In this episode of Sober Cast, Steve O takes center stage at the 29th Atlanta Men's Workshop back in March 1996, tackling the often-taboo topic of sex and sobriety. Aimed primarily at a group of straight folks, Steve's workshop dives into the nitty-gritty of how intimate relationships can be managed while staying true to the principles of recovery.
He emphasizes the importance of honesty, communication, and acceptance, urging listeners to be open and vulnerable in their relationships. Steve O doesn't shy away from sharing his own experiences, making this workshop both relatable and insightful. He talks about the need to reveal oneself 'warts and all', without shame, as a crucial step toward healing.
Through personal anecdotes and wisdom from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, Steve highlights how acceptance—both of oneself and one's partner—is key to a healthy relationship. One of the standout points in this workshop is the role of sponsors. Steve stresses that seeking advice from sponsors who have navigated successful relationships can provide invaluable guidance. Whether it's learning to communicate better or practicing honesty, having a mentor can make a significant difference.
For anyone in recovery grappling with the complexities of intimate relationships, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt stories that underscore the importance of applying AA principles in all aspects of life. Tune in to hear Steve O's candid take on how to cultivate meaningful, honest, and accepting relationships while staying committed to your sobriety journey.