Lee Davy
Lee Davy
Worried Your Child’s Losing Themselves? Here’s Why It Happens
Worried Your Child’s Losing Themselves? Here’s Why It Happens
Worried Your Child’s Losing Themselves? Here’s Why It Happens
Tuesday 15th July 2025
Explore how to prevent your child from losing themselves in societal pressures with Lee Davy's insightful parenting tips.
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Lee Davy
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Sobriety Toolkit
Sexual Empowerment & Identity
Creative Recovery Journeys
Mindfulness & Emotional Wellbeing
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Children often lose themselves trying to fit societal norms.
- Parents can help by creating a safe space for expression.
- Notice subtle changes in your child's behaviour.
- Encourage self-awareness over performance.
- Model authenticity and non-judgmental support.
"They don't copy your words, they copy your silence."
Lee Davy is back with another compelling episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast, tackling the silent struggles of children and how parents can help them stay true to themselves. This episode sheds light on the gradual disappearance of a child's self-worth as they try to fit into societal norms. Lee uses personal anecdotes, including reflections on his own son’s journey, to illustrate how children often mask their true selves in response to external pressures.
In honour of World Youth Skills Day, the episode takes a deeper dive beyond the typical conversations about technology and job skills. Lee focuses on the importance of nurturing self-awareness in children, encouraging parents to notice the subtle shifts in their child's behaviour that may indicate they are losing touch with their true identity. The concept of 'The Echo' is introduced, representing the inner voice that gets drowned out by societal approval and peer pressure.
Lee suggests that parents can play a crucial role by creating a safe space for their children to express themselves without fear of judgment or expectation. Listeners are invited to reflect on the unspoken lessons they might be imparting about alcohol and how their actions could influence their children's coping mechanisms. Lee emphasises that understanding these dynamics can prevent reliance on alcohol as a means of fitting in or escaping discomfort.
With a mix of humour and sincerity, Lee encourages parents to engage with their children through curious questions rather than punitive measures. This approach helps children remain connected to their essence, even as they navigate the demands of performance in everyday life. By modelling authenticity and self-awareness, parents can help their children build resilience against societal pressures. So, if you're looking for a podcast that offers genuine insights into parenting and self-worth, this episode is a must-listen.
It provides valuable strategies for fostering a supportive environment where children can thrive without losing themselves.