Mary Wagstaff

Stop Drinking and Start Living

Mary Wagstaff

  • Your Basic Needs Have Changed-Releasing the Need to Belong

Your Basic Needs Have Changed-Releasing the Need to Belong

Wednesday 13th August 2025

Explore how sobriety reveals your true self. Mary Wagstaff discusses identity shifts, authenticity, and embracing life's transitions.
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Stop Drinking and Start Living
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Mary Wagstaff
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Sobriety Toolkit
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Finding Authenticity: Why Sobriety is More Than Quitting Alcohol

Episode Overview

  • Sobriety is about reclaiming your buried self.
  • Authenticity provides true safety over belonging.
  • Perimenopause can be seen as a positive transition.
  • The Sacred Pause Method helps reassess beliefs.
  • Understanding personal desires can make alcohol irrelevant.
Authenticity is now a requirement for safety, where belonging was more of the requirement for safety before.
Ever feel like quitting alcohol is a bit like losing an old friend? In this episode of 'Stop Drinking and Start Living', Mary Wagstaff dives into the journey of redefining one's identity through sobriety. It's not just about ditching the booze; it's about uncovering the real you that's been hidden under layers of societal expectations.
Mary, a holistic alcohol coach and embodiment guide, shares her wisdom on why alcohol often acts as a mask for authenticity and how life transitions, such as perimenopause, can be embraced as a rite of passage rather than a crisis. She emphasises the importance of authenticity over the need to belong, suggesting that true safety comes from knowing oneself deeply.
Mary opens up about her own experiences with sobriety, revealing how she found herself thriving in areas she once struggled with. Her Sacred Pause Method encourages taking a step back to reassess beliefs and reconnect with one's true desires. Through candid anecdotes and practical advice, Mary offers a refreshing perspective on living alcohol-free. If you're curious about how authenticity can transform your life, or simply seeking inspiration on your sober journey, this episode might just be what you need.
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