Matt Brown & Sam Davis
Matt Brown
Your enabling is their oxygen—boundaries are the way forward.
Your enabling is their oxygen—boundaries are the way forward.
Your enabling is their oxygen—boundaries are the way forward.
Wednesday 30th April 2025
Discover how setting boundaries can transform your approach to supporting loved ones battling addiction in this insightful episode with Matt Brown.
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Matt Brown & Sam Davis
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Categories:
Sobriety Toolkit
Family Recovery from Addiction
Innovative Treatments & Recovery Paths
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Episode Overview
- Recognise the enabling behaviours that fuel addiction.
- Set clear and loving boundaries to support recovery.
- Use assertive language to reinforce boundaries.
- Understand the systemic nature of addiction within families.
- Seek support networks to bolster family resilience.
"Enabling is like oxygen for addiction—remove it, and the fire has a chance to go out."
Matt Brown is back with another episode of The Party Wreckers, diving into the complex dynamics of enabling and setting boundaries for those dealing with addiction. If you've ever asked yourself how to get a loved one to accept help, you're not alone. This episode tackles that very question, offering a treasure trove of practical advice drawn from Matt's extensive experience as an addiction interventionist.
Brown shares candidly about the importance of boundaries, likening enabling to oxygen for addiction—without it, the problem can be contained long enough for recovery solutions to take root. He emphasises the need for families to recognise their role in the cycle of addiction, often unwittingly contributing to it through emotional or financial support. The episode is packed with real-life anecdotes and analogies that make the complex subject matter accessible.
Matt uses a chickenpox analogy to describe the overwhelming compulsion of addiction, making it relatable for anyone who's ever tried to resist scratching an itch. He also discusses the systemic nature of addiction, affecting both the individual and their family, and the necessity of a unified family approach. With a mix of compassion and tough love, Matt guides families on how to set clear, loving boundaries that communicate support without enabling destructive behaviours.
He highlights the significance of using assertive language like "I will no longer" instead of "I can't," which helps solidify these boundaries both for the family and the individual struggling with addiction. Whether you're directly affected by addiction or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a supportive and understanding perspective. It challenges listeners to confront difficult truths while offering hope and practical strategies for change.
Why not tune in and find out how you can make a difference in your family's journey toward recovery?