Tom Conrad: Addiction Recovery Podcaster
Tom Conrad: Addiction Recovery Podcaster
576: Why Addicts Lie, Guilt-Trip, and Play the Victim (and HOW TO stop it)
576: Why Addicts Lie, Guilt-Trip, and Play the Victim (and HOW TO stop it)
576: Why Addicts Lie, Guilt-Trip, and Play the Victim (and HOW TO stop it)
Wednesday 15th October 2025
Learn how to identify and counter manipulation tactics used by addicts. Gain practical tools for healthier family dynamics.
19 minutes
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Empowering
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Author:
Tom Conrad: Addiction Recovery Podcaster
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Recovery Reimagined
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Family Recovery from Addiction
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Episode Overview
- Recognise manipulation tactics like playing the victim and blame shifting.
- Set clear boundaries to prevent enabling behaviours.
- Understand the psychology behind addict manipulation.
- Use specific scripts to respond to manipulative statements.
- Educate and involve all family members in the recovery process.
"Addicts absolutely love to play the victim. It's just blame shifting."
Curious about how addicts manipulate their loved ones and how you can stop falling for it? This episode of Real Recovery Talk, hosted by Tom Conrad, is a deep dive into the emotional and psychological traps that those struggling with addiction often set for their families. Tom, a recovering addict himself, shares from his personal experiences and extensive work with families over the years. He unpacks common manipulation tactics like playing the victim, shifting blame, and the infamous 'fix-it trap'.
Listeners will gain insight into how these tactics can derail a family's peace and prolong an addict's recovery. Tom provides practical scripts and strategies to help families break free from these cycles. The episode is not about blame but understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and support recovery. Tom also highlights the importance of setting boundaries and educating all family members involved in the recovery process.
He shares anecdotes of parents who have been guilt-tripped into enabling behaviours, showing how crucial it is to maintain clear boundaries to aid recovery. Whether you're a parent, partner, or friend of someone battling addiction, this episode offers valuable advice and real-life examples to help you navigate these challenging situations. Remember, it's not about fixing the addict; it's about empowering yourself with knowledge and support to handle these situations effectively.
So, are you ready to take the first step towards a healthier dynamic?
Listen in and learn how to protect your peace while supporting your loved one’s journey to sobriety.