Lee Davy
Lee Davy
Alcohol, Ambivalence, and the Problem of Being Pretty Good at Life
Alcohol, Ambivalence, and the Problem of Being Pretty Good at Life
Alcohol, Ambivalence, and the Problem of Being Pretty Good at Life
Friday 25th July 2025
Explore the paradox of being 'pretty good' at life but feeling stuck. Lee Davy challenges you to move beyond mediocrity and embrace transformation.
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Sobriety Toolkit
Sexual Empowerment & Identity
Mindfulness & Emotional Wellbeing
Entrepreneurship for Personal Growth
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Episode Overview
- You don't need to hit rock bottom to feel stuck.
- Success can numb personal growth and transformation.
- Ambivalence is often more insidious than crisis.
- 'Not that bad' can become a holding cell for potential.
- Challenge yourself to move beyond mediocrity.
Ambivalence is not neutrality; it's resistance dressed in comfort.
In this episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast, Lee Davy tackles the intriguing paradox of being 'pretty good' at life while feeling stuck. You don't need to hit rock bottom to realise you're in a rut, and Lee shares stories of individuals who have mastered survival but are yet to embrace transformation. Meet James, a successful man with a decent job and family life, who is grappling with the question of what he truly wants beyond his current achievements.
Lee reflects on his own journey and the deceptive comfort of the 'not that bad' zone, where many find themselves trapped. James, like many, is doing all the right things on paper - cutting back on drinking, meditating, and engaging in self-help activities. Yet, when asked about his deeper aspirations, he draws a blank. This episode dives into the concept of ambivalence, highlighting how it can be more insidious than outright crisis.
Lee uses his experiences to illustrate how success can numb one's growth, urging listeners to question whether they're choosing the path of least resistance in their lives. The podcast encourages reflection on personal goals and challenges listeners to face their inner world, asking them to consider where they might be coasting on 'good enough' energy. With a blend of humour and sincerity, Lee prompts you to ask yourself if you're avoiding decisions because they seem 'not that bad'.
Are you ready to stop hiding behind mediocrity and create a masterpiece out of your life? This episode is a call to action for those who feel they might be settling for less than their potential.