Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD Emotional Arrested Development & Object Other Relating
BPD Emotional Arrested Development & Object Other Relating
BPD Emotional Arrested Development & Object Other Relating
Thursday 1st May 2025
Explore how early childhood impacts BPD emotional development and relationships in this insightful episode with A.J. Mahari.
40 minutes
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Engaging
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Episode Overview
- Emotional development in BPD often halts before age two.
- People with BPD may project emotions onto others without true connection.
- Risky behaviours in BPD lack logical consistency.
- Understanding emotional dynamics can aid healing from toxic relationships.
- Early childhood trauma significantly impacts adult relationships.
"There's no logic to what people with BPD do in risky behaviour and impulsivity."
In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', A.J. Mahari dives into the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on the concept of emotional arrested development and object other relating. With a wealth of experience as a counsellor and trauma recovery coach, A.J. unpacks how early childhood experiences can lead to emotional development halting before the age of two for many with BPD.
This emotional stunting often results in individuals not fully understanding who they are, which can ripple through their relationships in adulthood. A.J. discusses the challenges faced by those in relationships with individuals with BPD, particularly around impulsive behaviours and the lack of logical consistency. Through a mix of personal anecdotes and professional insights, A.J. explains that people with BPD might project emotions onto others without truly investing in those relationships.
It's like trying to connect emotionally with a cup of coffee – it just doesn't work! This projection stems from an inability to differentiate between self and other, often rooted in childhood trauma. The episode also tackles common misconceptions about BPD, including the idea that risky behaviours have a logical basis. A.J. clarifies that these actions are more about emotional dysregulation than any rational thought process.
The discussion is peppered with humour and empathy, making it accessible and engaging for anyone affected by BPD, whether directly or indirectly. If you're looking for clarity on the chaotic world of BPD relationships, this episode offers a compassionate yet candid exploration. It's a chance to better understand the emotional dynamics at play and how they impact relationships. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation that might just help you make sense of the senseless.