Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD “Remission” Flawed and False Hope
BPD “Remission” Flawed and False Hope
BPD “Remission” Flawed and False Hope
Monday 7th July 2025
Explore the complexities of BPD remission with A.J. Mahari as she discusses its implications for relationships.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Episode Overview
- BPD remission is defined by reducing traits but lacks universal applicability.
- Remission doesn't equate to recovery; significant therapeutic effort is needed.
- False hope can arise from misunderstanding remission in BPD relationships.
- Focus on personal healing rather than waiting for a loved one's remission.
- Recovery involves long-term therapy and personal growth.
"BPD remission is not a shortcut to recovery or a guarantee of change."
In this episode of "Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups", A.J. Mahari tackles the thorny concept of BPD remission, questioning its validity and usefulness. If you've ever wondered what it means when someone with Borderline Personality Disorder claims to be in remission, you're not alone. A.J. dives into the complexities of this term, arguing that it often provides false hope for those involved in relationships with individuals diagnosed with BPD. With a mix of professional expertise and personal anecdotes, A.J.
explains how remission is defined—typically by a reduction in the number of traits from five or more to less than five—but highlights the challenges in applying this definition universally. A.J. shares insights from years of experience, discussing the difficulties in measuring remission and how it varies greatly from person to person. She emphasises that remission doesn't equate to recovery, and cautions against relying on it as a measure of progress or change.
Instead, she advocates for focusing on genuine recovery, which involves significant therapeutic effort and time. For anyone tangled in the emotional web of a BPD relationship, A.J.'s candid discussion offers clarity. She encourages listeners to focus on their own healing journey rather than waiting for a loved one to reach an ambiguous state of remission. This episode is a reality check for those seeking answers and solutions, providing a deeper understanding of what true recovery entails.
If you're looking for guidance on navigating relationships affected by BPD, A.J.'s expertise might just be what you need to steer your path towards healing and self-care.