Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD Hypersexuality Is Self-Soothing And You are The Bandage
BPD Hypersexuality Is Self-Soothing And You are The Bandage
BPD Hypersexuality Is Self-Soothing And You are The Bandage
Friday 5th December 2025
Explore BPD hypersexuality as a self-soothing mechanism, not genuine intimacy. Learn how it impacts relationships with insights from A.J. Mahari.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Episode Overview
- BPD hypersexuality is a self-soothing mechanism, not genuine intimacy.
- Partners often mistake intense sexual behaviour for connection.
- Hypersexuality serves as a survival strategy for emotional regulation.
- Understanding trauma responses can aid in healing from BPD relationships.
- Self-respect and healthier dynamics are crucial in recovery.
"Hypersexuality in BPD is not about desire; it's about dysregulation."
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Mahari sheds light on how individuals with BPD use sexual intensity as a survival strategy to manage overwhelming feelings of shame, abandonment terror, and internal chaos. Through candid discussions, listeners gain an understanding of why partners often mistake this intense behaviour for genuine connection, and the emotional turmoil it can cause.
The episode delves into the psychological patterns behind BPD hypersexuality, offering insights into how it impacts relationships and the importance of recognising these behaviours through the lens of trauma and dysregulation. With a focus on healing and recovery, Mahari encourages listeners to differentiate between real intimacy and coping mechanisms, emphasising the need for self-respect and healthier relationship dynamics. If you're looking for a thought-provoking exploration of BPD relationships, this episode provides valuable perspectives on navigating these challenging waters.
Ready to learn more about the hidden dynamics of BPD hypersexuality and its impact on relationships? Tune in for an eye-opening experience that may change your perspective.