Sober Socialising: Tips for Enjoying Events Without Alcohol
Episode Overview
Always have a plan for social events. Bring your own non-alcoholic drinks. Consider taking two cars for an easy exit. Talk to another sober person before attending. Build a network of sober friends for support.
It's not as hard as you think, especially if you choose to go to these things with another alcoholic or a supportive spouse.
Summer’s here, and social gatherings are in full swing. But how do you enjoy these events without relying on alcohol? In this episode of the Sober Friends podcast, Matt, John, and Steve tackle the challenge of sober socialising. They share practical tips and personal stories to help you navigate social events confidently and comfortably without a drink in hand. Whether it's a backyard barbecue or a family gathering, these guys have got you covered with their light-hearted and honest advice.
Matt kicks things off by reminiscing about a recent sober barbecue hosted by their friend Timmy. It’s a reminder that fun doesn’t have to involve alcohol. They discuss the importance of having a plan, like taking two cars so you can leave early if needed or bringing your own non-alcoholic drinks. It’s all about setting yourself up for success. Steve chimes in with his experiences of feeling outnumbered at parties where everyone else was drinking.
He shares how he managed to stay sober by having an escape route and keeping supportive friends on speed dial. John adds that it’s crucial to talk to another sober person before heading to a potentially triggering event. The hosts also highlight the benefits of belonging to a 12-step group, where you can build a network of sober friends who understand your journey.
But even if you’re not part of a fellowship, their tips are invaluable for anyone trying to stay sober in social settings. So why should you listen to this episode? If you’ve ever worried about how to enjoy social events without alcohol, this episode offers practical advice and real-life examples that prove it’s possible—and even enjoyable—to have fun while staying sober.
Tune in for a mix of humour, wisdom, and heartfelt support from three guys who’ve been there and done that.