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Gerry B – What are some examples of amends we can’t or shouldn’t make?
Gerry B – What are some examples of amends we can’t or shouldn’t make?
Gerry B – What are some examples of amends we can’t or shouldn’t make?
Sunday 18th April 2021
Gerry B shares his journey of making amends in recovery, offering heartfelt stories and practical advice for those facing similar challenges.
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Episode Overview
- Making amends can be emotionally challenging and requires sensitivity.
- Actions can speak louder than words when rebuilding trust.
- Some amends may seem impossible but can be approached creatively.
- Helping others can serve as a form of amends.
- Recovery involves personal growth and mending relationships.
"Sometimes making amends is not about saying sorry but showing you've changed."
Gerry B, an AA member from Hurstbridge, Victoria, opens up about the tricky territory of making amends in this episode of SoberQ. With over 13 years of sobriety under his belt, Gerry reflects on the amends he has faced and shares some heartfelt stories that many in recovery might relate to. He talks candidly about his journey through the AA programme, where he learned to face the truth about himself and his relationships.
One of the most poignant moments he recounts is attempting to make amends with his ex-wife, a process that was emotionally charged and led him to pause for her sake. Gerry explains how, over time, his actions spoke louder than words, helping to rebuild trust and establish a friendly relationship with her despite their separation. But what about those amends that seem impossible? Gerry touches on scenarios like owing money to someone who has passed away or lost touch with.
He shares his approach of 'repaying the universe' by helping others in need, treating it as a form of amends. His story is a testament to the idea that recovery is not just about abstaining from alcohol but also about personal growth and mending relationships in meaningful ways. Gerry's reflections provide comfort and guidance to anyone navigating the path of recovery, reminding us that sometimes, making amends is not straightforward but can still be achieved through kindness and positive change.
His experiences are sure to resonate with those facing similar challenges, offering a glimmer of hope and practical advice. So, if you're pondering the complexities of amends in your recovery journey, this episode is worth a listen. Who knows – it might just inspire you to find new ways to heal old wounds.