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Neil G – What are some examples of amends we can’t or shouldn’t make?
Neil G – What are some examples of amends we can’t or shouldn’t make?
Neil G – What are some examples of amends we can’t or shouldn’t make?
Thursday 15th April 2021
Neil G explores when making amends can cause more harm than good in recovery. Learn about alternatives and the importance of timing.
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Episode Overview
- Consider the potential harm before making amends.
- Consult with a sponsor for guidance.
- Prioritise amends based on impact.
- Explore alternative ways to make amends.
- Balance personal peace with others' well-being.
"I must be sure to remember that I cannot buy my own peace of mind at the expense of others."
Neil G, a seasoned member of the Clovelly Beginners Group, shares his wisdom on the delicate subject of making amends in recovery. With 23 years of sobriety under his belt, Neil brings a wealth of experience to the table, discussing when making amends might do more harm than good. Ever wondered if saying sorry could backfire? Neil dives into examples where revealing past mistakes might hurt more than heal.
He talks about scenarios like unburdening guilt, which could end up causing pain to others. Neil stresses the importance of careful judgement and consulting with a sponsor before taking action. He explains how some amends could jeopardise personal relationships or even careers, urging caution and consideration for all involved. Neil offers practical advice on how to approach amends, such as prioritising them based on their potential impact.
He shares examples where alternative forms of amends, like writing a letter or donating to charity, might be the better route. His stories illustrate how timing and sensitivity can play a crucial role in successful amends. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone navigating the tricky waters of recovery. Neil's candid reflections and examples provide valuable guidance on making amends without causing further harm.
Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that balances the need for personal peace with the well-being of others.