Yitz Epstein
Yitz Epstein
Idealizing, Devaluing & Discarding - Narcissistic Control
Idealizing, Devaluing & Discarding - Narcissistic Control
Idealizing, Devaluing & Discarding - Narcissistic Control
Tuesday 16th July 2019
Yitz Epstein reveals how narcissists control victims through idealization, devaluation, and discard phases. Learn to break free and heal.
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10 minutes
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Yitz Epstein
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Recovery from Trauma
Healing Relationships
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Spiritual & Personal Growth Journeys
Mindful Recovery
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Get the buttons here!The Cycle of Narcissistic Control: Idealizing, Devaluing, and Discarding Explained
These individuals have mastered the art of idealizing and devaluing the sweetmeat cycle. You fell for a shiny object that posed as a person but really was trying to take from you.
Picture this: You meet someone who makes you feel like the most special person in the world. They shower you with affection, praise, and attention. But then, slowly, things start to change. This episode of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast' with Yitz Epstein dives deep into the unsettling cycle of idealizing, devaluing, and discarding that narcissistic abusers use to control their victims. Yitz, a seasoned relationship life coach, breaks down each phase with clarity and empathy.
First comes the Idealization phase, often referred to as 'love bombing'. Here, the narcissist makes their victim feel exceptional, almost too good to be true. But it’s all part of a manipulative game. The next stage is Devaluation. This is where the mask starts to slip. The abuser uses put-downs, humiliation, gaslighting, and withholds love to undermine the victim's self-esteem. It’s a gradual process that leaves the victim questioning their worth and reality. Finally, there's the Discard phase.
The narcissist abruptly ends the relationship, seeing the victim as needy and no longer useful for their ego. This sudden rejection can be devastating, leaving the victim feeling discarded and confused. Yitz emphasizes that understanding these phases is crucial for anyone looking to break free from such toxic relationships. He offers practical advice on recognizing these patterns and reclaiming one’s life.
By acknowledging that the relationship was a form of emotional manipulation, victims can start to heal and rebuild their self-worth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has experienced or is currently dealing with narcissistic abuse. It’s not just about identifying the problem but also about finding a path to recovery. Yitz’s compassionate approach provides both insight and hope, making this episode an invaluable resource for those on their healing journey.