Step One Insights: Sobriety and Recovery
Episode Overview
Understanding Step One in AA and its significance. Differences between being 'recovered' and 'in recovery'. The importance of sponsorship in maintaining sobriety. Challenges faced by alcoholics after achieving initial sobriety. The role of spiritual experiences in overcoming alcoholism.
I'm a Grateful Recovered Alcoholic. I worked 12 steps. I had a spiritual experience. I have recovered from the deadliest illness known to mankind, alcoholism.
In this enlightening episode of the Stay Sober for Keeps workshop, John Kelly and Myers R. delve into the critical aspects of Step One from the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) program. The session, held in Laguna Niguel, CA in 2012, brings together participants eager to understand the nuances of staying sober and the journey to recovery. John Kelly, a grateful recovered alcoholic, begins by sharing his sobriety journey, emphasizing the profound transformation he experienced since his sobriety date, September 4th, 1999.
He humorously acknowledges the audience's dedication in attending the workshop over a weekend, highlighting the shared commitment to sobriety. The discussion pivots around the concept of being 'recovered' versus 'in recovery'. John passionately argues that through the 12 steps and a spiritual awakening, he considers himself recovered from alcoholism, a deadly illness. This notion challenges the traditional view within AA where many identify as perpetually recovering. The session also tackles the challenges in achieving long-term sobriety.
Statistics reveal that less than 5% of newcomers to AA maintain long-term sobriety, a sobering realization that underscores the importance of understanding and internalizing the steps. Sponsorship emerges as a pivotal theme, with John emphasizing its role in guiding newcomers through the AA program. He stresses the importance of a sponsor in helping a new member grasp the core teachings of AA, particularly the understanding of alcoholism's insidious nature. Spirituality is presented as a cornerstone of recovery.
The conversation extends to Step Two, where the belief in a power greater than oneself is crucial for restoring sanity. This step is presented not just as a means to abstain from drinking but as a pathway to mental and emotional stability. The episode closes with reflections on the broader AA community, highlighting the need for meetings to focus not just on fellowship but on solutions, drawing from the experiences of successful groups globally.
John and Myers leave the audience with a renewed sense of hope and a deeper understanding of the path to sobriety.