Walking the Talk: Joe McDonald on Living a Life of Neutrality
It's not about doing, it's about being. But the doing will reveal to you what you're supposed to be being.
Ever feel like you're just going through the motions in your recovery journey? In this episode of 'Position of Neutrality', Joe McDonald dives into what it truly means to live a life of neutrality, as inspired by the founders of Alcoholics Anonymous. Forget just talking about sobriety; Joe emphasizes the importance of actually walking the talk and embodying the principles in everyday life.
He sheds light on the significance of self-appraisal, urging listeners to look inward and honestly assess their thoughts and behaviors. This isn't about beating yourself up; it's about understanding and improving. Joe also warns against the dangers of pretending to work on your steps. It's easy to get caught up in telling long stories without taking real action, but this can lead to relapse. He stresses that step work is about making tangible changes, not just talking about them.
Another key takeaway from this episode is the idea that the evidence of your decisions will show up in your actions. When you decide to change, you'll see it reflected in your inventory and daily habits. Joe's message is clear: being in the spirit and making decisions are crucial steps in recovery. He explains that living a life of neutrality isn't about being indifferent or passive. Instead, it's about observing things objectively and staying calm in any situation.
It's about accepting things as they are and trusting that everything will work out. If you're looking for practical advice and heartfelt encouragement on your journey to sobriety, this episode is a must-listen.