Family Matters: Navigating Addiction with Jay Staples
Episode Overview
Parents can't control or worsen their child's addiction. Setting boundaries is crucial for personal well-being. Families can become addicted to the chaos of addiction. Support groups and therapy are essential for family members. Focus on self-care rather than controlling the addict.
If you think your behaviour can make it worse, then you also think your behaviour can make it better.
Family Matters with Jay Staples on The Chronic Hope Podcast takes a deep dive into the complex world of addiction and codependency within families. Kevin Petersen, a seasoned therapist and author, joins Jay Staples in exploring the tough questions that many families face when dealing with addiction.
With a blend of humour and sincerity, they tackle questions like whether parents inadvertently make their child's addiction worse by trying to fix them, and what to do when a parent feels they've lost love for their child due to their addiction. Kevin brings a refreshing perspective, challenging the notion that a parent's actions can worsen or improve an addiction. He stresses the importance of setting boundaries and focusing on self-care rather than trying to control the addict's behaviour.
This episode is packed with real-world advice and anecdotes that resonate deeply with anyone facing similar struggles. Jay and Kevin also discuss the chaos that addiction brings into family dynamics, and how sometimes families become addicted to this chaos themselves. They highlight the necessity for families to change their approach, stepping back and allowing the addict to face the consequences of their actions.
With a mix of empathy and tough love, Family Matters offers a compelling look at how families can navigate these difficult situations. Whether you're a parent, sibling, or friend of someone battling addiction, this episode provides valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to set boundaries, focus on self-care, and support your loved one without losing yourself in the process.