Family Matters: Tackling Tough Questions on Addiction with Jay Staples
Episode Overview
Set clear boundaries to help without enabling. Prepare emotionally for worst-case scenarios. Understand that sobriety may change your loved one. Families should engage in their own recovery work. Communicate openly and honestly within the family.
I am no longer willing to participate in your suicide
Ever wondered how to handle the toughest family-related questions about addiction and codependency? This episode of The Chronic Hope Podcast, titled 'Family Matters with Jay Staples', is a must-listen. Kevin Petersen, MA, LMFT, and Jay Staples dive into the nitty-gritty of dealing with family crises due to addiction. The episode kicks off with a light-hearted banter between Kevin and Jay, making it feel like you're catching up with old friends.
But soon, the conversation takes a serious turn as they address some of the most heart-wrenching questions families face. One of the standout moments is when Kevin tackles the daunting question: 'What if my child dies from their addiction? How do I prepare myself for that possibility?' Kevin's response is both compassionate and brutally honest, urging parents to set boundaries and offer help without enabling destructive behaviour.
The hosts also discuss how families can prepare for changes in their loved ones after they get sober. It's not always smooth sailing, and sometimes the person who emerges from recovery is different from the one you knew before. Kevin emphasises the importance of families doing their own work, setting clear boundaries, and maintaining open communication. This episode is packed with practical advice and emotional support for anyone dealing with addiction in their family.
It's a rollercoaster of emotions, but you'll come away with valuable insights and a sense of hope. If you're grappling with similar issues, this episode offers a roadmap to navigate these challenging waters. Tune in for heartfelt advice, a few laughs, and a lot of wisdom.