Mastering Holiday Boundaries: A Guide to Stress-Free Celebrations
Episode Overview
Set clear boundaries with family and friends during holidays. Prioritise your immediate family's needs over extended family demands. Communicate expectations clearly to avoid misunderstandings. Practice moderation to prevent holiday burnout. Remember that saying no is okay and necessary for mental health.
It's okay to say no to siblings and parents around the holidays.
With the festive season looming, stress levels can skyrocket, often due to a lack of boundaries. In this episode of 'Mental Health Matters', Liz Lange and Dr. Mark Burton dive into the art of setting boundaries during the holidays. They explore the various types of boundaries that can be established, whether it's with extended family, friends, or even personal limits on time and money. Dr.
Burton shares his insights on how unchecked expectations can lead to holiday stress and offers practical advice on maintaining self-care amidst the chaos. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they discuss the pitfalls of Christmas morning with extended family, where mismatched expectations can lead to uncomfortable comparisons between gifts from Santa. Liz shares anecdotes from her own experiences, highlighting the importance of communication and planning when it comes to holiday gatherings. Dr.
Burton also touches on the cultural expectations surrounding family obligations, suggesting that prioritising your immediate family can often be the key to a happier holiday season. He encourages listeners to think about moderation and avoid excess in all areas – whether it's spending money or cramming too many activities into the calendar. If you're feeling overwhelmed by holiday demands or struggling with family dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights into setting boundaries that work for you and your loved ones.
Tune in for a refreshing take on managing holiday stress and learn how to say no without guilt.