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The Cost of Unresolved Trauma: Relapse, Parental Guilt & Chronic Pain w/ Erin Martin
The Cost of Unresolved Trauma: Relapse, Parental Guilt & Chronic Pain w/ Erin Martin
The Cost of Unresolved Trauma: Relapse, Parental Guilt & Chronic Pain w/ Erin Martin
Wednesday 27th August 2025
Erin Martin shares her journey through unresolved trauma, chronic pain, and motherhood in a candid conversation on Adult Child podcast.
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Healing Relationships
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Recovery from Trauma
Sobriety Toolkit
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Unresolved trauma can resurface unexpectedly, impacting sobriety and mental health.
- Age correspondence reaction triggers past trauma when your child reaches a significant age.
- Community support is crucial for healing beyond traditional therapy.
- Balancing personal healing with parenting requires navigating complex emotions.
- Reality TV can serve as an unusual yet effective form of self-care.
"I'm just taking my boat through the shame lake. You can do it. You can navigate it."
Erin Martin joins Andrea on the Adult Child podcast to tackle the tumultuous journey of unresolved trauma and its ripple effects. Erin, a fellow podcaster and reality TV enthusiast, shares her raw experiences growing up in a high-control religious group and a dysfunctional family. Her story unfolds with a mix of humour and honesty, as she recounts the resurfacing of buried traumas during her sobriety journey.
Chronic pain, relapse, and the challenges of motherhood form the backdrop of her narrative, offering a candid look into how these elements can collide in unexpected ways. Erin discusses the concept of age correspondence reaction—a phenomenon where a parent's unresolved trauma is triggered when their child reaches the same age they were during a traumatic period. This revelation provides a liberating lens for parents grappling with their past while trying to nurture their children.
The episode delves into the layers of trauma, likening it to peeling back an onion, revealing how healing is an ongoing process rather than a destination. Andrea and Erin explore how cult experiences and personal breakdowns have shaped Erin's path, leading her to find solace in therapy and community support. Erin's humour shines through as she recounts her love for trash TV and how it serves as a quirky form of self-care amidst the chaos.
Whether you're navigating your own healing journey or simply curious about how past traumas can impact present realities, this episode offers a blend of compassion, insight, and relatability. Tune in to uncover the nuances of trauma and healing, and find a sense of camaraderie in shared struggles.