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The Problem With Legalism - Episode 3 (Archive)
The Problem With Legalism - Episode 3 (Archive)
The Problem With Legalism - Episode 3 (Archive)
Tuesday 29th July 2025
Explore judgement vs consequences with Wes Thompson & Austin Hill in this episode, as they unravel the complexities of legalism in recovery.
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Episode Overview
- Curiosity can lead to understanding rather than judgement.
- Consequences don't always mean casting judgement.
- Good people can make mistakes without being defined by them.
- Legalism offers comfort but doesn't fit all situations.
- Judgement should be left to higher powers.
Sometimes good people do terrible things. That doesn't make them terrible.
Ever found yourself tangled in the sticky web of judgement and consequences? This episode of the Relational Recovery Podcast dives headfirst into the murky waters of legalism, shedding light on the difference between judging others and holding them accountable. Wes Thompson and Austin Hill, your guides through this complex terrain, offer a fresh perspective on how we perceive and react to behaviours that rub us the wrong way.
Instead of jumping to conclusions or reacting out of anger, they advocate for curiosity and understanding, encouraging us to respond with informed empathy rather than harsh judgement. The conversation explores how good people can sometimes do not-so-good things, reminding us that everyone is capable of mistakes. It's a comforting thought – knowing that one bad act doesn't define a person entirely.
The duo tackles the age-old dilemma of rules versus reality, explaining why rigid legalism might seem comforting but doesn't always fit the complexities of human relationships. With a sprinkle of humour and a dash of wisdom, Wes and Austin dissect how consequences don't always equate to judgement, urging us to separate actions from personal worth. They suggest that judgement should be left to the judicial system or higher powers, while we focus on understanding and growth.
If you're curious about how to navigate the tricky balance between holding someone accountable and casting judgement, this episode offers valuable insights. It's a heartfelt discussion that might just change the way you view your relationships.