Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Wanting a BPD Ex Back The Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Wanting a BPD Ex Back The Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Wanting a BPD Ex Back The Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Sunday 1st June 2025
Explore the emotional complexities of wanting a BPD ex back and learn how to break free from fantasy bonds in this insightful episode.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Episode Overview
- Understand the concept of fantasy bonds and their impact.
- Recognise the importance of self-awareness in relationships.
- Explore the role of codependency in repetitive relationship cycles.
- Seek therapy to address personal issues and promote healing.
- Challenge idealised perceptions of past partners.
"The person you fell in love with doesn't exist."
In this episode of "Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups", A.J. Mahari dives into the complex world of wanting a BPD ex back, exploring the tangled web of fantasy bonds and unanswered questions. If you've ever found yourself yearning for an ex who has ghosted you, you're not alone. A.J. breaks down the emotional turmoil that comes with these relationships, shedding light on why people often cling to the hope of rekindling what was never truly there. A.J.
discusses the concept of fantasy bonds, where individuals hold onto an idealised version of their ex-partner, hoping they'll return and transform into the person they believed them to be. This episode challenges listeners to reflect on the reality of these relationships, emphasising that the person you fell in love with might not exist as you imagined. The podcast doesn't shy away from addressing tough questions—like why a BPD ex might hurt you or if they are aware of their actions.
A.J. candidly explains that many individuals with BPD struggle with self-awareness, leading to behaviours that can be confusing and painful for their partners. With a mix of empathy and expertise, A.J. offers guidance on breaking free from these repetitive cycles. She encourages listeners to seek therapy and work through their own codependency issues, highlighting that true healing comes from within rather than from seeking answers from an ex.
Whether you're in the throes of a breakup or just curious about the dynamics of BPD relationships, this episode provides valuable insights and practical advice. A.J.'s compassionate approach will leave you feeling understood and supported. So, are you ready to confront the fantasy and find your path to healing?