Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
Friday 13th June 2025
Explore how untreated BPD individuals deny abuse and deflect responsibility. A.J. Mahari offers insights and strategies for coping.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Episode Overview
- Understand how untreated BPD leads to denial and deflection.
- Recognise projection as a tactic used by individuals with BPD.
- Trust your own experiences over deceptive narratives.
- Set boundaries to protect yourself from emotional chaos.
- Learn practical strategies for trauma recovery.
"Most of them remember most of what they did, and they're lying feverishly to avoid responsibility."
This episode of Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups tackles the thorny issue of how individuals with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often react when confronted about their behaviour. A.J. Mahari, a seasoned trauma recovery coach, sheds light on the complexities surrounding BPD-related abuse, denial, and deflection. The episode explores whether people with BPD genuinely forget their actions or if they are intentionally avoiding responsibility.
Mahari discusses the phenomenon of 'memory loss' in BPD, questioning if it's a genuine lapse or a strategic escape from accountability. Mahari dives into the frustrating cycle faced by those dealing with untreated BPD individuals, where evidence of wrongdoing is often met with denial and blame-shifting. She emphasises the importance of recognising projection and manipulation tactics, urging codependents to trust their own experiences and not be swayed by the deceptive narratives spun by those with BPD.
With anecdotes from her extensive experience, Mahari illustrates how untreated BPD can lead to a chaotic blend of emotional dysregulation and dissociation, making it challenging for affected individuals to differentiate between past trauma and present actions. She provides practical advice for those caught in this turmoil, stressing the need for self-preservation and the importance of setting boundaries.
Listeners will find Mahari's insights both comforting and empowering, as she offers strategies to navigate these turbulent relationships without losing oneself in the process. Her candid approach provides a lifeline for anyone struggling to understand the bewildering behaviours associated with BPD. If you're grappling with the complexities of a relationship involving BPD, this episode might just offer the clarity and guidance you need. Are you ready to confront the chaos head-on?