Lee Davy
Lee Davy
Why I Drank to Fit In – Even When I Wasn’t Drinking
Why I Drank to Fit In – Even When I Wasn’t Drinking
Why I Drank to Fit In – Even When I Wasn’t Drinking
Wednesday 21st May 2025
Join Lee Davy as he unpacks a poker night that turned into a lesson on authenticity and the urge to fit in.
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Episode Overview
- Reflect on situations where you feel compelled to fit in.
- Consider the impact of societal pressures on your authenticity.
- Recognise when your 'parts' take control and guide your actions.
- Explore personal growth by facing challenging environments.
- Embrace individuality and live a self-led life.
"The mimic said, forget self. That guy next to me, he’s the alpha."
Ever found yourself morphing into someone else just to fit in? Lee Davy takes you on a rollercoaster ride through a poker night where his inner 'Mimic' took the wheel. In a gripping tale of self-reflection, Lee shares how his attempt to blend in at the poker table mirrored larger life patterns.
Despite being a former professional poker player, Lee finds himself in a whirlwind of mimicry, realising that his actions were driven by an instinct to belong rather than any strategic gameplay. Lee recounts his journey from railway worker to poker enthusiast, weaving in anecdotes about his transition to an alcohol-free lifestyle. This episode isn’t just about cards; it's a deep dive into those moments when we abandon our true selves for acceptance.
Lee candidly discusses the pressures of conformity and the struggle to remain authentic in a world that often rewards imitation over individuality. As Lee reflects on his experience, he challenges you to think about your own life. Where do you find yourself shapeshifting to fit in? What environments trigger your 'parts' to take control? It's a call to embrace self-awareness and vulnerability, encouraging you to face these situations with curiosity rather than retreat.
Lee’s story is both humorous and poignant, leaving you with plenty to ponder. If you've ever felt the urge to laugh at a joke you didn’t find funny or mimic someone else's behaviour just to belong, this episode will resonate with you. So why not join Lee on this introspective journey and see what insights you might uncover?